By: Wills Wilson
Throughout history, only people of mettle, have found the strength to shrug off the compelling, yet perfectly-normal human demand for revenge, or retribution, against an injurer or aggressor, over unwarranted ill, persecution, injury, or tragedy.
Such people exercise the ‘heroic’ option called forgiveness; which in practical terms qualifies in every ounce of weight, Alexander Pope’s claim in his book: ‘An Essay on Criticism’, that: “To err is human, but to forgive is divine”.
Among those noted in history for the rare grace of forgiveness, are ordinary folk, truly reverent of Godly (or religious) instruction; and not necessarily those who occupy the topmost rungs of the ecclesiastical ladder in our societies.
Permit however, mention of our Lord Jesus Christ, because Christians and humanity, are urged to emulate Him; and attempt to live out a like, if not greater degree of His same standards in ‘Love’ and ‘Forgiveness’.
It was our Lord Jesus Christ, who taught us the ‘Model Prayer’ to His Father, (who He knows best); and which contains the petition ” … And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us”. (Luke 11:4).
During His Crucifixion also, it was our bruised and battered Lord, who cried out to God to have mercy on His torturers, in the words: “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing!” (Luke 23:34).
Take heed therefore, of the full import of ‘ Forgiveness’ within the last three paragraphs of the Model (Lord’s Prayer); which imply that whoever does not forgive another, would be breaking the bridge over which he or she must one day travel (or would not be forgiven by God).
Within contemporary society, the actions of several people have qualified them as ‘Heroes of Forgiveness’; but on account of constraints which border on convenience, only three will be discussed.
POPE JOHN PAUL II
The late Pope John Paul II (1920-2005), was the serving Catholic Pontiff, at the time he was shot at twice, and wounded, at St. Peter’s Square, Vatican City, on May 13, 1981, by (now late) Mr. Mehmet Ali Agca; but then a 25 year old Turkish Muslim activist.
The bullets, fired at the Pope from a pistol, while he was being driven through a crowd of about 10,000 people, during his
Weekly General Audience, pierced his colon, abdomen, and small intestines multiple times; luckily missing his mesenteric artery and abdominal aorta.
The Pope lost nearly three quarters of his blood, and underwent five hours of surgery, which included a colostomy that temporarily rerouted the upper part of his large intestine to allow the damaged lower part to heal.
This must have been an ordeal for the then 61 year old Pontiff.Thankfully, Pope John Paul survived the assassination attempt; while Agca was caught and restrained by a nun and other bystanders until the Police arrived.He was arrested, tried, and sentenced to life in prison.
While serving out his sentence, a fully recovered Pope John Paul, paid Agca a visit in his prison cell on December 27, 1983; where he spent about twenty minutes privately with him; prayed for him, and told him he had forgiven him.
He later told the world: “What we talked about will have to remain a secret between him and me. I spoke to him (Agca) as a brother whom I have pardoned, and who has my complete trust”.
NELSON MANDELA
Late Nelson Mandela was a South African, who suffered lengthy ‘State-sponsored and sanctioned’ incarceration and humiliation, with hard labor in prison, for more than half of his life.
His ordeal began from July 1962, after his arrest, trial and sentencing to life in prison; and ended 27 years later (in 1989), when he was released.
Five years later, he was prevailed upon by his countrymen and women to run for the Presidency of his then badly-racially polarized country.
Mandela won the Presidency, and stunned the world throughout his tenure between 1994 and 1999, with actions that portrayed him as being something of an ‘out-of-this-world’ character.
He NEVER sought revenge, or retribution against his persecutors, but instead, began his term in office by initiating a Government of National Unity, with Frederick De Klerk (the former ‘racist’ Prime Minister of the country).
He went on to invite Mr. Percy Yutar to lunch! Yutar, a Lithuanian immigrant, was South Africa’s first Jewish State Attorney; and the same man who headed the Prosecution against Mandela and his co-accused, and asked for the death sentence against them!After that lunch-session, a ‘broken’ Yutar, described Mandela as “a saintly man”.
Mandela also paid a Courtesy Call on Betsie Verwoerd at her Retirement Home in the ‘Whites-Only’ enclave of Orania. Betsie was the widow of Hendrik Verwoerd (the architect of apartheid, and inflexible Prime Minister of South Africa, at the time of Mandela’s incarceration)!
Nelson Mandela left such a strong legacy in ‘Love’ and ‘Forgiveness’ that cut across race, creed, color, religion, tribe, or other bias so profoundly, that he remains an unimpeachable authority in instruction on both virtues.
It is the same Nelson Mandela who said: “Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear, and that is why it is such a powerful weapon”.
There are many other people in society, who have risen beyond the human promptings for revenge or retribution for ills committed against them, and permitted love to flood them into unconditional forgiveness.
One of such people is Distinguished Senator John James Akpanudoedehe.
This is Senator Akpanudoedehe’s story.
After almost single-handedly, installing the government of Akwa Ibom State, in 2007, and nominating many of its functionaries, fate served Senator Akpanudoedehe, a cruel twist in fortune.
The same government and its functionaries, turned around, to persecute him to the cruellest and most savage extents of his entire political career.
They conspired to rig him out of his victory in the 2011 Gubernatorial elections, and subjected him to everything, from being framed; to arrest; detention; torture; and persecution within other grievous contexts.
His businesses suffered; his family’s peace was shattered; his wife suffered health challenges; and every semblance of civility and order was denied him; his family members; friends; loyalists and just about anybody connected to ‘Akpanudoedehe!’
It was God, and not man that brought Senator Akpanudoedehe, respite.In 2015, when Senator Akpanudoedehe made his second bid for the Governorship of his State, the same conspirators from 2011, set out to dent his credibility.
Carefully crafted falsehoods were spun against him and disseminated with dubious precision throughout society, by people who for an ignoble fee, elected to distinguish themselves as proficient, mechanical, pathological, and compulsive liars!
Considerable damage was done to Senator Akpanudoedehe’s name, which caused him very weighty public opprobrium, and helped greatly to frustrate his gubernatorial bid, which was the objective of his antagonists.
He became a pariah of sorts, and his public rejection was extended to his supporters, none of who was considered worthy of any appointments in the Party and government they built and supported at the exacting cost of sweat, tears, and blood.
Through the humiliation of being ignored, while decampees from the opposition PDP were gifted with juicy appointments, Senator Akpanudoedehe kept his cool, and urged his supporters to remain committed to their Party, no matter what tribulation they suffered.
Later revelations acquitted him of the falsehoods he was accused of.In his third Governorship bid in 2019, the same agents of blackmail and falsehoods from 2011 and 2015, resurfaced. Their alliance and conspiracy worked to frustrate Senator Akpanudoedehe’s ambition, but thankfully, spared him extreme damage.
At the end of the day, he was left with much of his integrity intact!The fact to be noted is that today, Senator John James Akpanudoedehe has forgiven all of the people who caused or contributed woe or ill directly or indirectly to him!
He has forgiven those who ambushed and killed his supporters, as well as burnt and vandalized his vehicles on March 22, 2011, when he went to campaign in Ikot Ekpene.
He has forgiven those who told lies against him, in personal communication with others, or through the media, to ensure he is reviled by his supporters; or incarcerated by the authorities, and kept out of political circulation.
He has forgiven those who plotted to eliminate him by invoking a powerful deity to snuff out his life at a public function.
He has forgiven those who he helped along in life, but who turned around to betray him for pecuniary or other benefit.
He has forgiven the architects of, and contributors to every evil plot orchestrated against him and members of his family; as well as against his friends and supporters.
What manner of man is Senator Akpanudoedehe, if not a man who has attempted to act (especially within the context of ‘Love’ and ‘Forgiveness) in consonance with the Biblical instruction that true Christians should be Christ-like?
I doubt if any would construe him to be any less.
Wills Wilson is a season lawyer and a practicing journalist and writes from Uyo